I used to use certain NSFW video/GIF sharing forums, finding or making a thread dedicated to the kink and starting with examples. It’s also possible to cast a wider net (e.g. ‘leggings thread’) and then request more of a certain kink (‘animal-print leggings’).
I can’t give examples, I’m just not in the scene and the sites I know died long ago, and surely there are some around. I’m tempted to even do an analogue here, making a Lemmy community instead of a thread. I just don’t have the time or interest to moderate another site (I already manage too many)
Like my bio says, I love a good bunch of tags. Less commercialized communities like the drawn porn ones have a culture of using booru sites (Japanese for ‘board’), where posts don’t have titles but just have tags. If the board has a decent culture and uploaders tag half-decently, it’s an infinitely better experience to a tube site or a reddit-like aggregator where you just have clickbait titles competing and maybe a [M/F] tag if you’re lucky. On a high-quality booru, you can simply just search like
solo female facepaint -clown
.My point being, that a site like this just isn’t ideal. Tagging will always be a coping mechanism. That doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be done, but it’s an uphill battle. Even on some video tube sites I’ve seen with a tagging system at its very core, it’s neglected to the point that it’s worthless even for basic fetishes. Here, you’d need an automoderator or a dedicated moderator to enforce basic sex tags in titles.
(tagging parent comment @southsamurai )