Maybe you would like Tunic, it’s souls-like but you do not lose all your currency on death and you can adjust the difficulty in several ways

I’m mid thirties myself and games are what I grew up with and it’s how I like to enjoy my storytelling. I think it’s entirely lost on some people how different games are as a media. My SO and I have had chats about it and she understands that it’s a whole different experience than a movie or tv and appreciates my enthusiasm for truly great games.

I can totally understand that some people just don’t jive with games but I’m so grateful my SO tolerates my gaming even though she doesn’t partake much herself.

I feel no pressure to stop so I don’t see myself stopping gaming anytime soon. You just need to find the right one, they don’t even need to like games, they just need to like you as a person.