My wife and I have a bit of an exhibitionist streak. I think “Candaulism” is the best description of what I enjoy - I love the idea of her being desired, but still submissive to me. So a couple of months ago we were fucking somewhere public late at night and we thought we had been caught for sure by a security guard. We zipped up and got away. But when we were fucking at home later my wife said she wished I’d made her stay, and moreover, that the security guard had indeed caught us. Great, good kinky stuff.

She’s a respectable person where we live so sometimes part of the play is “what if those people lnew you were a slut, if you got caught”. But then she admitted she would have offered to suck his cock while I fucked her to keep us out of trouble. And I swear now I can hardly think of anything else.

She’s never been with anyone else - we’re together two decades since we got together as teens - but the idea of her getting to be a bit slutty and crossing over from putting on a show to audience participation is exciting. Me “making” her be a slut works for both of us - I love pushing her limits and she loves being controlled - but who knows if an opportunity like that will ever come up again.

Ok, I’ve got a fur fetish for quite some time, and a few years ago someone I played with (while I was bound with furs and a mask) took a picture of me (with my permission)

It was really amazing when this picture of me circulated up on a fur fetish forum I’m on. It’s really helping overcoming my self doubts how I look.

So new kink - anonymous people looking at a horny picture of me.

(And fur coats, not furry, that’s a different kink I don’t share)

I don’t know if it’s my latest but the thing that’s on my mind most is sucking some cock which I’ve not done yet. I’ve been a straight male so far. Not just one cock either but many and not just sucking. 😀

I’m a switchy bi guy and I’ve always had interest in being submissive, but more in the “You take charge and tell me what to do” kind of dynamic. I don’t know how the shift happened, but in the past few years I’ve really started to feel turned on thinking about more 24/7 dynamics(TPE). I doubt it will be something I’ll ever get to play around with though.

I’ve also become a lot more comfortable with feminine expression as well. It’s always nice to see that some gals enjoy that.

Well change that. Just found out an old friend hot male friend of mine is moving back to town and I’m hoping he and my wife will go past all the flirting they do and actually fuck finally.

My role is going to be enabling that, not watching or participating, not being around for it, and then cleaning her up afterwards. Eating his cum and using his cum as lube.

Recently Freeuse is something that really gets me going as a fantasy. Maybe it’s because my partner and me are very busy at the moment and it always requires a lot of coordination to find some quality time.

Edit: Just forgot the obvious one. OC on here turns me on 11. I love the notion that somewhere on the world someone is as horny as I am, and gets a kick out of sharing, as much as I enjoy it to watch. It is something that classical porn never could for me, or I wouldn’t get from interacting with some OF model. It‘s like the online version of friends with benefits, compared to a sex worker thats just putting up with it for the money…

Recently been into an exhibition fetish, purely as a fantasy, because neither me nor the wife would be comfortable doing anything remotely close, but reading and seeing people’s content about it gets me going like nothing lately

My ex is into pup play and that’s something I’ve never thought I’d get into. But now I’m ready to pat the bed and make him sleep at the foot of my bed. He might get to lap my cock till I cum if he’s a good boy.

I am a straight, late-50s man with Asperger’s. I’ve been thinking about touching every square inch of a woman’s body. A long time acquaintance recently asked me to meet her for sex and I did the every square inch thing starting at her head and working my way down. She said she had never experienced anything like that before. Another long time friend reached out a couple of weeks ago and asked if I would join her and her husband. I said I would and mentioned that I would like to every square inch her in front of her husband. She immediately got very aroused. I’m going to do it to her in a couple of weeks. I’m very much looking forward to that.

For me is like anything to do with pee. Like peeing my partner or my partner peeing me. I can’t explain why, but there is something about being soaked with pee that turns me on.

Not fetish or kink, but I never really thought I would find sexy pictures to be, well, sexy. But apparently the hot looking men were hiding in the guy-on-guy threads. I just remember the days of print magazines, the guys in the one filled with men who were not sexy to me. Like at all. Some of the stuff gay guys are posting on Lemmy though, have two good looking guys and are sexy, I am enjoying them.

I recently got to do my first CNC scene with a partner with whom I have been able to build up a good amount of trust.

The feeling of power of forcing someone who “doesn’t want this” is incredible.