• kiwicheese@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Kind of opposite. My girlfriend would give me a hand job because she wasn’t horny when I was. Then suddenly ask me to finish doggy style. I assumed she got horny enough.

    After a couple of times I told her that she feels different inside when this happens.

    Then she told me that it’s not that she gets horny, it’s just that her arm gets tired. I then had to tell her I’d rather just stop, than fuck her when she’s not horny.

    • Mickey7@lemmy.worldOP
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      1 month ago

      Zero fun to fuck someone who is not into it but just doing it to shut a guy up. She probably felt different because she was getting hot and her pussy juices started flowing

  • ladicius@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Is wanking off your partner really faster than fucking? Or is this question about the ordeal piv sex puts on the woman? Genuinely curious.

    • Mickey7@lemmy.worldOP
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      1 month ago

      As a guy, I would think it has to be more involved for the female to get ready for PIV sex. It’s not like you can just shove it in. And…after it’s over she’s oozing out cum for the next hour or so. Quick and neat with a hand job.

      • Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        1 month ago

        Sorry in mask a guy but personally I’d rather wait for PIV later than a rushed handie now.

        That said, I’ve had girls that were down with a quickie before heading out. How they dealt with the aftermath I’m not entirely sure but I’ve always owned bidets so I’m sure they managed fine.

  • Pornoagent@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 month ago

    I know the question was directed towards women, but, as a guy, a handjob would take longer than quickie sex, women just usually don’t know what they’re doing. It’s the same way it probably wouldn’t be helpful for a guy to try to rub a woman’s pussy to get her off, we just don’t know what feels good for you as much as you know your own body. You may as well just ask me to jerk myself off while you rub my balls than try a “quick” handjob, unless you’re an expert at it. May depend on the guy though, mileage may vary.

  • pinkpint@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 month ago

    If I’m also horny then yes sometimes but he better also finger me, I’d rather a quickie fuck though. If I’m not horny then no, I don’t mind if he jacks off though.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 month ago

    Sort of the opposite. I have finished him that way when it’s gone on long enough I’m sure I am not going to cum anymore, but otherwise no, if short on time would rather do something we both get something out of. So our quickies are PIV - occasionally I don’t get off if it is really quick but in that case (since it doesn’t happen often) the frustration usually makes the next time better.