My partner and I had a bit of an anal night a week or so back. I incorporated a little orgasm denial game into the scene as well, after I had begun playing with them and getting them close, I put a video we recorded of them giving a third a blowjob and told them that they weren’t allowed to cum, until they had made him cum in the video. I made them struggle to contain it and because I am very familiar with the video when it was getting close I played into their praise kink by telling them it was a good thing they were so eager to please and had finished him so quickly. After that we put away the videos and stepped up the anal play with toys until we had some just the tip anal sex.
Other than that I have been working on a bit of an erotica featuring us for them to read.
I feel that downvotes serve an important purpose both in keeping out spam, but also in preserving the many-niches architecture common in porn. Without downvotes even more work will be put onto mods in order to make sure the content posted is relevant to the communities its being posted too. Take c/Hotwife which has recently had a few postings that have 0 to do with hotwifing. Allowing downvotes is an imperfect solution, but I think an important one.