Reddit refugee, RIP Apollo 7/1/2023. I laugh at comedy and love love.

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Cake day: June 25th, 2023

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  • I’m trying to use it like Twitter where I find people and organizations to follow who are funny or interesting…but the majority of people “boost” other stuff more than they post. This gets problematic for me because you just follow a few accounts and suddenly your feed is so full you can’t read through it all. I want it to be manageable… I want to follow people I enjoy reading…but I don’t necessarily want to see 30 posts a day that they like. Maybe I’m using it wrong or thinking about it wrong. I enjoy some things about it and I’m happy it exists, but I’m having trouble finding a lot posts and users that I find super engaging.

    I follow probably 30 Lemmy communities and scrolling through the feed brings me much more that is interesting, beautiful, funny, insightful…










  • In my 40’s I feel like everything about me is an old person trait.

    As a trauma survivor, all of the people I’ve ghosted in my life were toxic and bad for my mental, physical and emotional health and I have no regrets. It’s kind of like the Billy Crystal speech in When Harry Met Sally, except the opposite. When you realize you don’t ever want to see a person again for the rest of your life…you want the rest of your life to start immediately